
There was a nice conversation goin on in our class for the GD.The topic is "Love Marriage or Arranged marriage".A girl stood up and told that love marriage life is successful than that of arranged marriage.The reason she gave for this is that in love marriage we get to know each other whereas in the latter case it is not so.This is where i am confused ..do people really get to know each other before telling their love.I can boldly say NO.
Lovers here actually speak with each other openly only after expressing their love.since the proposal is over ,even if u find fault with ur lover there is no goin back; atleast it is hard to do so.Then here comes the term infact a beautiful term called "ADJUSTMENT".many opt for this than breakin their love because they dont want others to know that they took a wrong decision.I dont know whether this is wat the girl in our class told as 'getting to know each other'.if that is so, i think that this can be done even in arranged marriage.atleast ur partner would not have kissed any other person before marriage.
A kind suggestion to all of u friends .if u r goin for arranged marriage dont choose a beautiful girl because she would have fallen in love already and she is here to marry you because her love failed or her boyfriend cheated her.
thank u for reading .life is not full without fights and quarrels .so u can fight here ;quarrel here but the weapon should be nothing other than comments.bye bye ..